Many lives seem empty and dark because they are disconnected from their True Self, their inner soul. Our false self — the personality we’ve adopted in order to face an unsafe, unpredictable, and often cruel world — can move us further and further apart from our true essence, the “we” who existed in God’s eye before we ever did a bad or good thing. This separation is a sad and lonely reality.
Spiritual growth happens when our Ego self begins to get reacquainted with our True Self, or soul. Carl Jung describes this beautiful reunion in moving prose:
“My soul, where are you? Do you hear me? I speak, I call you – are you there? I have returned, I am here again. I have shaken the dust of all the lands from my feet, and I have come to you, I am with you. After long years of long wandering, I have come to you again. Should I tell you everything I have seen, experienced, and drunk in? Or do you not want to hear about all the noise of life and the world? But one thing you must know: the one thing I have learned is that one must live this life. Do you still know me? How long the separation lasted! Everything has become so different. And how did I find you? How strange my journey was! What words should I use to tell you on what twisted paths a good star has guided me to you? Give me your hand, my almost forgotten soul. How warm the joy at seeing you again, you long disavowed soul. Life has led me back to you. Let us thank the life I have lived for all the happy and all the sad hours, for every joy, for every sadness. My soul, my journey should continue with you. I will wander with you and ascend to my solitude.”
― C.G. Jung, The Red Book: Liber Novus